When I first heard that Sandy had passed away my first thought was that it couldn’t be true and what are her family and friends going to do without her? She was really an amazing, genuine person who was a big part of a lot of people’s lives. Even though our relationship was more of a close acquaintanceship, I feel her passing deeply, so I can only imagine the void and grief her close family and friends are feeling now.
I have lots of fun memories hanging out at Sandy and Norms house having “sausage making parties” and camping with them but the memory that sticks out the most is Jazzercise. We used to attend the same Jazzercise class at the Santa Cruz Roller Palladium and Sandy was always at the front class. I was too shy and self-conscious to be up in front but Sandy would invite me to exercise in front with her every time. And that’s one thing I really admired about her, even though there was the proverbial “generation gap” whenever we were together, she always made sure to make everyone feel included. So despite Sandy’s encouragement (and a little goading) I stayed in the back watching Sandy going full tilt to every song and completely enjoying every moment.
So, when I look back over my memories of Sandy I think that’s what I remember most, a woman that lived her life at the front of life’s line…..what a wonderful person. My heart goes out to everyone who’s lost her.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Christine Chase-Avila